The wish to begin a new life is not a rare phenomenon and if it has arisen, then do not disregard it! It is better to start everything from tomorrow – I am joking! Although it would be more logical, as they say, to start a new life with the New Year.
However, Christmas holidays and subsequent New Year's Eve ruin the order of wakefulness and sleep and promote mega-idleness which does not contribute to the appearance of useful customs and dramatic alters in fate.
You cannot put your task aside until summer, and even more so until autumn. Summer attunes you to laziness and diverts attention from productive activities. Extra stress and depression, as a result, are not enticing. The hope to alter your life in autumn is just funny. In autumn, all the nature and life is dormant. It is better not to talk about winter at all. A warm time of year, when nature begins to wake up, remains the only launch pad to start a new life!
It is simpler to change life than you think. So to say, if you decided to start a new life, do it. The first step in a new life will be something that did not visit you in the past – determination. We need only to set the task and go to its solution, only without the motto “to stick at nothing”. It is necessary to have faith in yourself – to concentrate on the tasks to be solved.
In spring, nature itself will help to renew the entire vegetable kingdom. You can start working on yourself right after the carnival.
Do Not Be Afraid of Parting with the Past!
On the contrary, fight off the fear that tomorrow a day may sharply change.If it is going to be different, that is good! Doubts "what if suddenly it will be worse then," do not take it into your head. Once the question arose about changing your life, “then” will be not worse! Do not look for easy ways to return to where it was good.
What Is Wrong?
First of all, it is necessary to define what is wrong with your present life. Remember your past projects, fortunate and not. Analyze the ways to achieve them. How and in what way have these achievements changed the life? Learn the lessons from the past, so as not to step on the same rake.
Specify the Tasks and Draw up a List of Them
The more clearly you imagine your goals, the easier will be the ways and instructions for their achievement. Global tasks should be divided into step-by-step stages and the goal set is to be achieved by the method of successive approximation.
Do Not Be a Miser!
Saving money just in case is quite a useful habit, but it is not necessary to turn into miser. It is okay to spend some of the savings on all sorts of nonsense. Just make yourself a gift, especially if no one did it for a long time. This will cheer you up and inspire positive thinking.
Do Not Complain
When you just wake up, do not begin preaching or starting a conversation about quarrels with your boss complaining about upcoming cases to solve. It is better to replace such groaning with a kiss and a smile.
Declare the Fight to Stress and Take a Timeout
All, even the most powerful, organisms need a kind of a breather and some time for recovery. Take your time and read the following article!
In the evening, do not watch TV, just sitting in front of it without any other desire. It is better to talk with your partner about different pleasing things. In any case, do not arrange any scandal before going to bed.
Develop a Plan of Action
Start to stick to the plan and do not forget about the power of autosuggestion (e.g., I will manage it).
Avoid both negative and pessimistic mood. With all this, do not forget to share your feelings with your close person (friend or partner). Allot at least fifteen minutes every day. This will keep the relationship with your partner afloat and will encourage you to cope with problems.
Say No to Bad Habits!
Put a stop to the buckets of coffee and give up looking for support in smoked cigarettes. Try to drive away all sorts of dim thoughts. In addition, do not forget that hopeless optimism is already a diagnosis!